05 April, 2012

WHY A WIFE ABBANDS HIM AFTER BEING SOBER?

Its a story of a migrated man and a capital spouce both were well educated ,well disciplined.
but cultures were different though married in a cultured way blessed with two kids.
some how the man started consuming alcohol, they both are equally in an offensive goal,after a long struggle the men is in recovery maintains sobriety, all of sudden he lost his job, he cant able to do hardwork due to his recovery, financial problems started . but the men had maintained his sobriety, when he was an achlolic he used to maintain all the amenities towards the family, but after the lose of job , he could not able to maintain all needs to wards the family. though the well educated wife being financially sound and socially maintains cared people
but due to ego backgrounder by their own parents she started dominating him with broken hearted wordings
she abused him regurely , in the family, near the job place and socially , but  being well educated medical graduate she cant shared a love to wards her husband and she cant able to identify that alcoholism is a  diseases, so called ALCOHOL DEPENDENCY SYNDROME. She used to abuse him in front of society , family members , and his job colleges keeping in mind that what she was faced during the husbands past life.
she filed the legal action against him which are all un proveable except alcoholism , man handled him with the family members , ill treated in the society  and finally with the help/support/or encouragement of the family members she abbanded him and left to her parents home town,
but the country men is such a stubban that he has been maintaining his sober recovery , hence i request the families of the alcoholic  be patience to wards them treat them as a patient and share the love and support them for the recovery , if not what is the faith the country men is facing the lonely ness  which may lead to devorce and the kids may miss the love of their beloved dad. its only an sharing to aware the families to beware of the faith of the country men the characters are only imaginary if its hearts any body i will pleased to appolize . thanks

WHY A HUSBAND ABBANDS WIFE ITS A SYNDROM?

The reason that Wife Abandonment Syndrome is so traumatic is that the change in the husband's behavior is dramatic, sudden and unexplained. or the harassment faced by her spouse/parents/legal ties?

In order to justify his decision not to include his wife in the process that led to the end of the marriage, he needs to come up with a compelling explanation for his actions. That explanation often has little to do with reality, causing the bewildered wife, who had previously trusted her husband's word, to wrack her brains trying to make sense out of something that is inherently nonsensical.

The type of man who abandons often appears to be unusually moral and trustworthy, making it even harder for the wife to accept that his words are empty justifications. The most important first step in healing for a woman in this situation is the realization that her husband is not the man she thought she knew and that he never was.
Ten reasons of Wife Abandonment Syndrome

1. Prior to the separation, the husband had seemed to be an attentive, engaged spouse, looked upon by his wife as honest and trustworthy.

2. The husband had never indicated that he was unhappy in the marriage or thinking of leaving, and the wife believed herself to be in a secure relationship.

3. By the time he reveals his feelings to his wife, the end of the marriage is already a fait accompli and the husband moves out quickly.

4. The husband typically blurts out the news that the marriage is over "out-of-the-blue" in the middle of a mundane domestic conversation.

5. Reasons given for his decision are nonsensical, exaggerated, trivial or fraudulent.

6. The husband’s behavior changes radically, feeling to his wife that he has become a cruel and vindictive stranger.

7. The husband exhibits no remorse; rather, anger is directed toward his wife and he may describe himself as the victim.

8. IN most cases wife attitude and dependency to wards her husbands seeks less rather then parents.

9. The husband makes no attempt to help his wife, either financially or emotionally, as if all positive regard for her has been extinguished. but he feels for his kids future rather his spouce.

10. Systematically devaluing the marriage, the husband redefines what had previously been an agreed-upon view of the couple's joint history.


Warning Signs for Married Women of Possible  (even if your husband has not talked about being unhappy in the marriage/maximum involvement of her parents/supporters in their personal life)

1. Has he had affairs in the past or left previous relationships in a similar way, even if you were the one for whom he left his last wife. That's the strongest predictor that he has what it takes to do that again.

2. Does he seem uncharacteristically unhappy with his life, even if his complaints are not related to the marriage. It's a sign that he may be re-thinking his life.

3. Do you notice a personality change? Does he just not seem himself? Is he withdrawn or suddenly irritable? Is he snapping at the children or not wanting to participate in family activities?

4. Are his habits changing - suddenly going to the gym, buying flashier clothes, dying his hair, getting a tattoo, buying an expensive car?

5. Do his values seem to be in flux? Is he adopting ideas that he used to belittle or belittling things he used to value? Is he espousing new beliefs that surprise you?

6. Is he taking "business" trips or disappearing for periods of time and the reasons given just don't seem to make sense?

7. Has he started to frequently mention a woman at work?

8. Does he work in a career in which he is in a position of power or authority, such as a professor, pastor, business executive or chaplain, where younger women may look up to him?

IMPORTANT SIGNS OF UR RELATIONSHIP IS OVER WITH UR PARTNER

MR YC
MR .KBC
MS. chary
mr.chary

Every relationship has its own set of problems. It all depends on how many and how much of it you can handle before it brings your relationship into a downfall. Here are some of the signs that may cause you to think your relationship is about to end.

1. Little Or No Communication: If you are sitting at candle lit dinner table and you cant think of anything to say to each other, you might find yourselves splitting up. Communication is a must have in relationships. If you are not communicating with your partner, things might have went dead for your relationship
2. No Time For You: When your partner acts like he doesn't have time for you, you might want to think about leaving him or her.
3. Comes Home Late: This can be excusable if you are really working hard or have family emergencies, but if you find your partner coming home late on a daily routine, there is a chance he or she isn't being faithful.
4. Being Sneaky: Whether its erasing text messages or having private phone calls they don't want you to know about, it is sneaky and more than likely they are hiding something from you.
5. Arguing/Fighting: You are constantly fighting with each other or arguing about the same problems over and over with no end or resolution.
6. Putting You Down: When your partner is always complaining about what you look like or saying things that don't help your self esteem or confidence in your relationship, this is a put down.
7. Parents involvement: no other person except spouce and he must solve the problem, but just like kbc
and mrs kbc with the group of villegers must not involve leave them alone and let them the problem solved or help them other then breaking the love relationship its my own story i and she are the sufferers more probebly my little kids miss a lot and the impact will be with in the minds in these cyberdays so beware of mr kbc.
TRISH/RISH
8. Cant Stand To Be Around Them: If you are happy and all of a sudden your partner walks in the room and you have a frown on your face, something is wrong.
10. They Have Cheated: If your partner has cheated on you in the past, you have little belief in him or her and you will constantly think (and may be) they are cheating on you again.
These are some of the most common signs of a troubled relationship. The first thing to do is realize your relationship has these problems so that you can address them accordingly.

04 April, 2012

IMPORTANT TIPS FOR HEALTHY LOVE RELATIONS


The following tips may assist you with enhancing the love relationships in your life.
1. Create Special Time - to connect with your spouse or partner, to share thoughts of appreciation through words, actions or deeds.

2. Listening - can be a wonderful gift to your loved one – don’t forget to be attentive and present when interacting with that special person.

3. Schedule Date Night - each week, so that you and your special love have uninterrupted time to stay connected. You can have a date on the town or at home.

4. Take Responsibility - for your feelings and actions by speaking in "I" terms, don’t play the blame game.

5. When you are angry - take a Time Out such as a deep breath, counting to ten or taking a walk. These strategies will help you avoid hurting each other emotionally throughharsh words or physically through hitting, punching or shoving. Many couples face the risks and pains of intimate partner violence.

6. Communicate - your love, concerns and feelings on a regular basis. You can do this during the day through a special two minute phone call, by taking a walk in the evening, watching the sunrise or sunset, or leaving a love note in a special place.

7. Find a hobby - that you can share together. Many people enjoy cooking, gardening, walking, jogging, reading, playing board games, etc.

8. Attend to each other’s - needs for intimacy and connection. Find ways to remember your days of early dating, and give your spouse or partner that special positive energy.

9. It takes two - to tango, so be willing to lead and follow.

10. Remember to -incorporate three important phrases in your daily interactions: "I’m sorry", "thank you" and "I love you."

A healthy love relationship doesn’t just happen – you have to work at it. Relationships do change (and they definitely will) and when they do you need to be aware of how they are changing and adapt to those changes.
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03 April, 2012

The Art Of Flirting - The Approach


Flirting is the way most people determine whether or not a member of the opposite sex is interested in them. Following is a quick outline on how you should go about the complex, sometimes fun, sometimes not so fun, task of flirting. It all beings with your approach.
The Approach
One person approaches the other. They move into closer physical proximity. This much is clear: NO approach equals NO possibility of initiating contact. You must approach!
Example: A woman sits down next to a man in a coffee shop, or a man stands near a woman in a dance club. This is the first step. Once you approach, you begin looking for the signs.

the art of fliriting - Body Language


Over a period of time, a couple that has begun to talk may also begin to orient themselves physically to one another, to turn toward one another until, if all is goes well, they are fully facing one another. This is your goal.






This step can take minutes or hours . . . or weeks or months . . . to achieve. Yet, without this physical reorientation toward one another, not very much can ever happen, so give up on people who turn their back toward you for long periods of time! But if they don’t…

the art of flirting - The Signs


The person who has been approached will always signal the other’s presence in some way…a sign. This signal is not like a train whistle, however, more a subtle body language which you can learn to recognize. For example, he or she simply may look up, move over to make room, nod slightly, or signal with a glancing eye contact.



A display of total obliviousness to the one who is approaching generally indicates lack of interest altogether. Don’t be discouraged. But if the one you approached shows absolutely no interest, then it’s time to re-group and try again. But let’s say the approach works. You have your positive acknowledgement, now what? Time to talk

the art of flirting - Verbal Exchange


The two people may then engage in a mild verbal exchange about impersonal, unimportant matters such as the weather or the scene around them. The key word here is MILD.


This is the classic place for the clever "line," but cleverness is not required. At this point, a verbal exchange is not for the purpose of sharing valuable insights about life or determining philosophical compatibility. It is just a vehicle to further the developing contact.


Examples: Verbal overtures might include anything from "please pass the pickles" to "your looking great tonight", to "have you seen the waitress?". Without some form of verbal response, it is highly unlikely that the next step will occur. Let’s say all is going as planned. Time for body language.

THE ART OF FLRTING - Touching


The woman or the man (most often the woman) touches the other in a light, fleeting way. Examples: A couple might accidentally brush their hands against one another while reaching for a drink, or the woman might pat the man on the arm in the middle of a shared joke. The exchange of very subtle, almost glancing touches may continue for some while, and if all goes well, can escalate into the casual affections shown by couples who are dating. If you’ve reached this point, then flirting has now become the beginning of a relationship. The Art of Flirting should always end with the beginning of a relationship. Now get out there and flirt.
The Art of Flirting is really the Art of making first contact. You only have one shot at making a great first impression. By following some of the guidelines we’ve established in this article, you should now be equipped to locate, approach, and ascertain whether or not your subtle flirting has opened the doors to a new and exciting relationship.

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10 March, 2012

10 IMPORTANT REASONS TO STICK WITH UR PARTNER

In a relationship? Wondering if you should stay or go? Well, don’t jump the gun! Here are 10 reasons why one would stay with their significant other..




1. He takes care of you when you’re sick.


2. She avoids adding the olives and eggplant you dislike when making her special pasta.


3. He likes to take you on picnics.


4. She always has a smile for you – no matter what.


5. He likes your pet(s).


6. She doesn’t feel left out when you go out with the guys.


7. He doesn’t complain when you have a chick night.


8. She’s genuinely interested in your career.


9. He calls you cute names like pumpkin or honey-bunnie.


10. She laughs at all of your jokes.





Have any comments? Care to add your suggestions or own personal experiences?


Please share your thoughts and suggestions in our comments section below.

Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby


“How soon long should I wait before having sex with someone new?” (Actually, truth be told, this question comes primarily from women. With few exceptions, for most men the answer to the question “How soon should you have sex?” is “How soon can I get it?”
Obviously, the “right time” between two consenting adults varies with every relationship. Some people think it’s okay to sleep with someone on the first date, others think nothing before marriage is acceptable. My own theory on the right time to do it for the first time falls somewhere in between tramp-o-rama and virgin nun.
If you’re just looking for a wild night, and a serious relationship or pesky moral dilemmas aren’t in the picture, then by all means, let the shirt buttons go flying. But, if what you’re looking for is a long-term relationship, you should wait to have sex until you’re in an exclusive relationship and hold off on doing the deed for at least a month.
No sex for the first month. Really.
Remember the old saying your mother, or grandmother used to repeat, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?” Well, like it or not, in theory, it still holds true today. Sure the sexual revolution has loosened things up a bit, but as we all know, that old double standard still exists. Sure, you can either sit there, mentally debating with me about why it’s unfair or wrong, or you can just smile and do what works. After all, what’s a little delayed gratification when we’re talking about the man or woman of your dreams? Whip out the fur-lined handcuffs and edible undies on your honeymoon, if you’re so inclined. The third date is not the time.
Okay, now try not to have a heart attack, it’s really not that bad. Once you start dating someone exclusively, one more month really isn’t that long to wait.
Why wait a month? The answer may surprise you. It has nothing to do with any moral issues, and it’s not about playing hard to get. It’s about chemistry. Brain chemistry.
The Love Drug
When women have sex, a chemical called Oxytocin is released in our brains. Scientists refer to it as the “Cuddle Hormone.” Why? Because it causes the affected person to get all sorts of mushy, googly, nesting romantic feelings. So what happens if you have sex too soon? A guy you thought was just so-so yesterday suddenly becomes Mr. Fabulous once you’ve had sex with him. Did he stop ending jokes with “get it?”, picking his nose or talking incessantly about his mother/pet iguana/job at the post office? No. The difference is sex. Doped up on Oxytocin, it’s much more difficult to judge whether or not he’s someone we really want to be with through the haze of googly-moogly romantic emotion.
The one-month sex embargo is just an extra measure of certainty, to make sure the guy is really someone you want to be involved with on that level of intimacy. How long you wait is up to you, as long as you wait at least a month. After the one-month mark, it will be abundantly clear to your man that you do not take this sex thing lightly, and that someone would have to be pretty darn special before you’d consider jumping into bed with him. And, you will have the opportunity to make your decision using your brain while it is still functioning properly.Don’t worry if you think your guy will leave if you don’t have sex with him. After interviewing hundreds of men on the subject, I can tell you that this simply isn’t a factor. If he can’t wait until you’re ready, he certainly won’t be hanging around long after the deed is done. By waiting, you are sending a message to your guy that sex with you is something special, and he will have no choice but to believe you are worth the wait.
Nag. Nag. Nag. Safety first.
I would be remiss if I didn’t stress the importance of safe sex. Always, always, always use a condom until you are both
1) in a long-term, monogamous relationship and also
2) have both been tested and are clean for STDs.
If it freaks you out to buy condoms at the local Kroger with your yogurt and salad-by-the-pound, by all means order yourself a box from one of the many online drugstores. They’ll deliver right to your door, and even your postal worker won’t suspect a thing. 

09 March, 2012

WHAT THE K I S S

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When you touch your lips deliberately to another person or object, or make a gesture that mimics such contact, you are kissing. Kissing in some form or variation happens everywhere---in public, in private, in the wild, in the most civilized social situations. Many animals besides human beings---including dogs, cats, and chimpanzees---kiss, or at least seem to be exhibiting what we'd call kissing behavior. We all kiss, and we all tend to take kissing for granted. But kissing can be a fascinating, complex thing. No matter how many kisses you've given and received, you probably have no idea how many types of kisses there actually are or how differently people all over the world view kissing. Here you'll find more than you ever thought there was to know about kissing.

04 March, 2012

I tried my first french kiss

I find this really embarrassing to say because I'm 19, but before recently I'd never french kissed a girl before. Anyway, I had a date with this girl last week and it went so well! When I kissed her for the first time I followed a pausing tip and I went in to kiss her and then paused for a second, smiled whilst she was obviously about to kiss me back, then I kissed her. Just that little subtle pause seemed to work magic!!... she told me I was the best kisser she'd ever kissed - honestly at that moment I felt like such a stud!"

Are you stressed about whether or not you are a good kisser?


 Are you stressed about whether or not you are a good kisser? 

Is there someone you really like that you really want to kiss but don't know how? Do you want to try French kissing but are too embarrassed to ask how to do it? Do you want to make sure your boyfriend or girlfriend loves how you kiss so much that they can't get enough of you? Or do you just want to make sure that you never make a kissing mistake, like trying to kiss someone all wrong?
I know how you feel. I've been there, too! Everyone has to learn how to kiss at some point in their lives. The problem is that it's too weird to ask anyone for advice, and kissing a pillow just doesn't seem to do the trick!
Are you stressed 




02 March, 2012

Whats the average age for a first kiss?


ok this question is everywhere, but i still wanna ask

ok ill be 15 in 2 weeks, i had a chance for a bf and kiss last year but i turned it down because he was a jerk. now i dunno if i should have done that, because everybody else is all like "i kissed so and so" and im like, "dammit"
i know i should wait for the right person and all, but frick! this is taking to long! i dont wanna jump at anybody, but im starting to think im uglier than i alread thought i was :/
so yea, does anybody have the average age a girl gets kissed?





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What is the deal with kissing? It's really quite weird when you think about it..


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Don't worry. We've all got an in-built ability to kiss - 
even primates do it. So it's a natural phenomenon, 
a bit like breathing, that is difficult to get wrong, and takes a surprisingly little amount of thought. 

Evolution and Mother Nature are on your side - a powerful combination, when all that's going against you are a few nerves, and maybe bad breath. 
Get yourself in the right frame of mind. Instead of dwelling on potential problems, imagine everything going really well. And when the big moment arrives your positive thinking will take over.

01 March, 2012

LOVE IN TEENAGE



Teenage Love really messes your head, doesn't it. If the answer is yes then you have come to the right place. Whatever be your problem, we have the solution.
Welcome to TEENAGE LOVE, as far as I know in the internet for teenagers and their love related queries. And for your knowledge, I am a TEACHER which makes the interaction and help much better.
Friends, Love is for everyone. We all have the right to fall in love. This is your guide to achieve your TEENAGE LOVE and keep your relationship smooth. So, what is love? We all have different answers to it. In my opinion love is the feeling that tells you that we need that one person you love and your life is incomplete without that person.  
 Most people understand love in their teens and fall in love for first time in teenage. So, I hope I will be able to help you all teenagers out there in your love life. Remember life without love is no life at all.

     
  Whatever your need about teen love, you will find help in this site. We have a lot of articles on the specific topic of teen love on this site. Whether your problem is about confessing love, asking a girl on a date or understanding the signs of love,weI have the answer. We also have information on how to properly write love letters without messing it up. If you need help on how to flirt with your girl or boy to convey your feelings, we are here to help you out. Remember, this is about teenage love. So, the flirting tricks are not always the same as those mentioned in general love sites. If you are wondering about what to gift your boyfriend or girlfriend on the next big day, we have composed a list of great gifts that are easy on the pocket but makes the  messes
So, take your time and browse the site. I am sure it will help you a lot in your teenage love life and make it a wonderful one. Good Luck.                                                

28 February, 2012

BIRTH OF FIRST LOVE

 What is it? How do you express it, much less define it? The universal theory of love, relationships, and lust have been on the minds of people since the beginning of time. How do you explain it?  Dickinson, a poet of the 19TH century, described love as "An anterior to life". Many theorists and researchers, as well as the common BOY or GIRL, have their own definition of love. Explanations, experiments, and all types of opinions have been offered on over and why.
According to  a theorist from the mid-twentieth century, early adulthood (ages 19-35) is a time of intimacy vs. isolation. Erikson argues that during the later years of adolescence and early adulthood, individuals must develop the ability to form deep, intimate relationships with other people. This theory is not directed specifically toward sexual intimacy, but toward forming long-lasting emotional bonds with another person. Erikson also said that people that do not form these long-lasting relationships will live their lives in loneliness or isolation.
No matter what one is looking for, there are typically things in a relationship that are challenging. Love does not come easy, it takes a significant amount of work. Whether it is love at first sight, love after two months or ten years, there are thousands of ways that people fall in love. Although people are trying to explain, predict, and even control love, it seems love finds a way to take over our lives and no matter what, it will always exist.
There are scientific ways to define love, but there are also society's stereotypes of the way things should be. For instance, for some people love is happiness, and for some love is misery, and sometimes love is both. But for many young adults, love brings happiness, companionship, and togetherness. It isn't always fun, and love doesn't always have a happy ending, but it all seems to be for the best. For many young adults in this day in age, love is the building block for the rest of their lives.

27 February, 2012

KISS CHRONOLOGY

KISS is regarded as one of the most influential rock and roll bands of all-time. Their career milestones are staggering. KISS holds honors as one of America's top gold record champions, recording 37 albums over 36 years selling over 100 million albums worldwide.


Over thirty years of record-breaking tours around the globe include high-profile appearances at Super Bowl XXXIII, the 2002 Winter Olympics in Salt Lake City, the 2005 Rockin' The Corps concert dedicated to our troops in Iraq and Afghanistan, and most recently, the 2009 American Idols Finale before thirty million views.


The KISS legacy continues to grow, generation after generation, transcending age, race and creed. The unparalleled devotion and loyalty of the KISS Army to the "Hottest Band in the World" is a striking testament to the band's unbreakable bond 





June 1973 - KISS records a five-song demo tape with producer Eddie Kramer, which winds up in the hands of former teen pop singer and Buddah Records executive Neil Bogart.

August 1973 - After a handful of showcase concerts in the summer of 1973, former TV director Bill Aucoin is hired to become the band's manager. With the help of Aucoin, KISS becomes the first act signed to Bogart's new label, Casablanca Records. 
October 10, 1973 - The band enters Bell Sound Studios in New York City and begins recording their first album.

February 3, 1995 - KISS stages the first Official Worldwide KISS Convention in Perth, Australia. The unique and revolutionary KISS Convention tour of 1995 features a traveling KISS Museum displaying vintage KISS stage outfits, instruments, and memorabilia. Performances by KISS tribute bands, KISS collectors/dealers buying, selling and trading KISS merchandise, precludes an evening appearance by KISS themselves, appearing live and in person, conducting a question and answer session, autograph signing, and a two-hour unplugged set comprised mostly of spontaneous fan requests. 

March, 1995 - KISS publishes and releases its own 9-pound, 440 page coffee table book,KISSTORY.

June 17, 1995 - Former KISS drummer Peter Criss visits the first North American KISS Convention in Los Angeles with his daughter. Peter joins the band onstage singing KISS classics Hard Luck Woman and Nothin' to Lose.


LOVE&SEX IS THE KEY TO LEAD HAPPY MARRIAGE LIFE


LOVE&SEX IS THE KEY
Gene Simmons says having a wife who is a ”Madonna in the kitchen and a w***e in the bedroom” is the key to a happy marriage.
Gene Simmons believes the key to a happy marriage is a healthy sex life.
The KISS bass player tied the knot with his girlfriend of 28 years, Shannon Tweed, in October despite previously claiming he would never marry and Gene admitted it is the couple’s wild antics in the bedroom that have kept them together for so long.
He told Hollyscoop.com: “Romance is interesting, but somebody much more prolific than I am put it better; she should be a Madonna in the kitchen and a w***e in the bedroom. That’s pretty accurate.”
Shannon’s advice is “Keep having sex in different ways. Try to think of something new.”
Gene also revealed the couple’s two children Nick, 22, and Sophie, 19, are not phased by their parents’ prolific lovemaking and just leave the house when they hear the “noise from upstairs”.

He said: “Thank god the children are grown up. As soon as they hear noise form upstairs they leave the house. That’s good.”
Gene – who claims to have slept with over 2,000 women – proposed to Shannon while they were on holiday in Belize in July 2011.
As he got down on one knee, he told her: “I come with so much baggage, but you’re the only friend I’ve got, you’re the only one I’ve ever loved, you’re the only one I love, and the only one I ever will love.
“I’ve never said those words to anybody, and I don’t ever wanna. It’s funny, they used to watch movies where they say I can’t live without you but for me it’s true.”