I find this really embarrassing to say because I'm 19, but before recently I'd never french kissed a girl before. Anyway, I had a date with this girl last week and it went so well! When I kissed her for the first time I followed a pausing tip and I went in to kiss her and then paused for a second, smiled whilst she was obviously about to kiss me back, then I kissed her. Just that little subtle pause seemed to work magic!!... she told me I was the best kisser she'd ever kissed - honestly at that moment I felt like such a stud!"